Month: May 2022

Back in August 2019, I blogged about the desperate need for gun control. Since then, absolutely nothing has changed legislatively at the federal level while more Americans lie dead leaving behind grieving and traumatized parents, children, brothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, grandparents and friends. We find ourselves in the midst of another massacre of young elementary school children in Uvalde, Texas. It sickens me to hear that number one cause of death among children ages 0-14 in the U.S. is now gunshot wounds, surpassing car accidents. And the greatest percentage of these deaths is among black children. For my post today, I revisited my 2019 post and decided to make updates and add additional thoughts. Here is that revised post:

I’m not a cynical person, but I find myself inwardly expressing a sense of cynicism as, yet another call goes out for thoughts and prayers and vigils for victims of three more-gun massacres by angry young men fueled by a hatred of themselves and humanity and enabled by Republican lawmakers who refuse to pass reasonable gun regulations. These Republicans like Senator Ted Cruz argue that guns aren’t the problem; the decline in morality and mental health is the problem. But if you know that to be the case, then why continue to provide easy access to deadly weapons to the “monsters” you know exist? There is a reason these same senators want to keep nuclear weapons out of the hands of certain leaders; they know they can’t be trusted with them. They argue that the way to stop a bad person with a gun is to have a good person with a gun. Well, we saw these last two weeks how good people with guns didn’t prevent nor protect against bad people with guns. The armed security guard in Buffalo was killed and the police in Texas were too afraid to go in. The armed security guard at Parkland was also too afraid to confront the shooter. We must collectively do more than console ourselves.

I acknowledge that there is value in a community coming together to mourn the senseless loss of life and to encourage and find strength in the resolve of one another to move on. I know this from 2018 when my community was the victim. But my thoughts have once again moved to the need for change. And my prayers have again taken on the nature of “Lord, have mercy on us and help us change our ways.” I don’t want more vigils; I want protests. I don’t want hollow thoughts and prayers; I want legislative changes. In particular, I’m calling out Senator Ted Cruz and “Massacre Mitch” also known as “Moscow Mitch” who is the U.S. senate minority leader to push their party members to pass the gun control legislation already passed by the House.

Since these shootings, this past week, I’ve emailed every Republican senator with an active email address, calling on him or her to pass sensible gun regulations. I’m skeptical of Mitch’s recent public announcement to work with Democrats because back in 2019 he also promised to at least consider passing some form of gun legislation aimed at background checks. Nothing passed back then and now under 2022 pressure from Americans after the three most recent shootings, he is essentially making the same promise. Same political playbook and so I’m doubtful of actual action by Republicans. They are owned by the NRA and the Trump white supremacist base whom I fear are arming themselves for a civil war. Watch Senator Cruiz being interviewed.

The Second Amendment is confusing and has been interpreted in different ways throughout our history. It reads, “A well-regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.” Times today are different than they were in 1791 when this Amendment was ratified. The question is whether or not normal citizens who are not part of a militia should be allowed to possess military style weapons without any sort of “regulation”? The thing is, we the people have the right to demand that our lawmakers pass laws that protect the general welfare and public health, especially when it is evident that the status quo isn’t working on our behalf.

I would like to return to the ban on assault weapons. Since it was lifted, mass shootings significantly increased. I would also like there to be full background checks, gun safety licensing, and insurance attached to gun ownership. There must be a ban on the number of bullets a person can purchase and each one should be registered to the individual buyer. These are common sense restrictions that any reasonable person who cares about public safety should agree to. We require safety licensing and insurance to drive a car because we understand it is important to keep people safe. Shouldn’t the same be true of owning a lethal weapon like a gun? And perhaps raising the legal age to 21 for such a consequential responsibility is appropriate too.

As for those who already own assault weapons, I think the government should follow the example of Australia and New Zealand who bought them back. We can either give them to the military or destroy them. What we can’t allow is for these guns to remain in the hands of local gangs, gangsters, white nationalist groups, and angry men. True hunters don’t need these guns to hunt. For those gun enthusiasts who enjoy the experience of shooting assault weapons for fun, make them available at shooting ranges where they must remain under strict protection.

The time is past due for Americans to abandon our perverted love affair with guns. We are turning ourselves into prisoners who are afraid to go to the movies, places of worship, concerts, schools, parks, malls, festivals, and even work. The very fabric of our society is being destroyed. The root of the problem with creating “monsters” might be poor parenting, drugs, hatred, resentment, loneliness, anger and some say, mental illness, but giving them easy access to guns turns them ruthless murderers. The time has come to be truly pro-life and to only elect lawmakers who support sensible gun regulation. These politicians should be earning an “F” rating from the NRA and gun lobby. In the meantime, we must maintain the pressure on Republicans to pass new gun legislation even if it is only for background checks as a start.

I grew up in a world that did it’s best to convince me that whiteness was the standard for beauty, competence, and respectability. Unfortunately, some really believe and continue to push this nonsense. When I was growing up, this fabrication of white superiority was literally reinforced in every school, media outlet, and church. It was inescapable. That false narrative had us seeking the white man’s approval to simply live our lives. Some of the most overt proclamations of white supremacy came from unsuspecting family members. I recall being present during a family discussion when my grandfather literally substantiated a claim by telling everyone that the source of the information was a white man. That single claim ended all interrogation of the argument being made.

It took me years to claim my value as a fully capable human being who is on equal footing in all respects with all other human beings no matter the color of their skin. My confidence grew as I repeatedly outperformed the majority of my peers (including white ones) academically, in sports, and in social settings. It was my parents’ decision to move into a predominately white neighborhood that helped me reject notions of inferiority. That constant contact with white people in my neighborhood, my school, and later my church exposed me to the invisible hand of the government support of their schools, their values, their businesses, and their livelihoods. I came to see that the police worked on their behalf to protect and serve, not to actually police them. I saw their petty crimes being treated as “petty”. None of those potheads next door or in my high school were ever arrested for selling or using pot or any other drug. That white neighborhood had more and better everything than my old black neighborhood because the local governments, banks, and corporations invested in them. It wasn’t because they as individuals were any smarter or morally superior, but because those government representatives, bank executives, and corporate leaders were also white. They had set up an entire system to benefit white people.

I eventually came to recognize that the disparity in schools and neighborhoods was attributed to a systematic and intentional scarcity of resources that encouraged hopelessness, competition, resentment, jealousy, theft, and violence. Throw a few pieces of bread into a pond of starving ducks and watch the ruthless competition unfold. That was what the black and brown neighborhoods were like. Only when my two brothers were robbed of their leather coats on the street did my mother decide it was time to move far away from the minority neighborhoods of my early youth.

It is not lost on me that our history is riddled with stories of how individual blacks or black communities that dare to thrive are destroyed by jealous white supremacists. Their crimes went unpunished by a white criminal justice system they created to fine us or imprison us, not to protect and serve us. I witnessed this firsthand on far too many occasions and I’ve lived my entire life with the understanding that the police are not my friend. As a University Administrator, it was impossible to get a white student arrested for selling drugs on campus. But let a black student play their music too loud and they are right there. We’ve all seen the pictures of five-year-old black children led away in handcuffs. I’ve never been a person to sit silently in the face of injustice, so I began to address the uncomfortable issues.

I spent my entire career in higher education, working along with others to expose systems of oppression and encouraging others to work toward dismantling the notion of white superiority and white privilege. I’ve made many people uncomfortable, even furious, and have borne the brunt of their wrath for it. I have the bumps, scars, and bruises to prove how difficult that fight was. But now, finally, people are starting to see that excellence comes in all colors and that white supremacy was a horrible myth. However, I used to caution that those who benefit from the system of white supremacy and privilege were going to fight to maintain it. And they are. That’s what their misguided “Replacement Theory” is about.

It came as no surprise to me that an 18-year-old white man went to a black neighborhood and killed ten innocent black people in service to notions of an unsubstantiated, but purely self-preserving white supremacy. It’s also not surprising that the police took him alive. After all whiteness still has some privileges. But at least he was arrested and is facing first degree murder charges as well as hate crime charges. Now that is progress. I just wish our Justice Department had the guts to go after the instigators of this nonsense like they went after Dr. King and other civil rights leaders.

The days of inclusion and equity are coming if we join together and fight for that day, because one thing is certain: the notion of white supremacy is a despicable lie, but those who benefit from perpetuating it are willing to fight to keep it in place.

I’m back in Philadelphia completing yet another round of grandparenting while the au pair is back in Columbia for a two-week vacation. After my first week, my younger daughter flew in to finally meet her new nephew in person. During one of our conversations, we both noted a marked difference in how people are relating to each other when it comes to giving and receiving information and feedback. There is a hyper-sensitivity that has creeped into people that makes them explode when confronted with unpleasant information or feedback.

We’ve all witnessed the yelling, the ridicule, and even the violence from people in public places when asked to wear a mask. The unhinged emotional responses to necessary information and honest feedback only serves to silence those around us. And when we become silent when others need important information or honest feedback to make wise decisions, our society ultimately loses. Our public health is in jeopardy. Our environment is in jeopardy.

The deterioration started with our elevation of the ego-manic Donald J. Trump to the position of president. Because of his hyper-sensitivity, his staff now admits to withholding important information from him and to refusing to challenge his wild ideas, to refute his conspiracies, and to contradict his blatant lies for fear of public ridicule. Donald Trump is the poster child for the emperor who has no clothes. Unfortunately, we are quickly becoming a society of naked emperors.

I’ve seen the change in my own adult children’s responses to each other. They’ve become reluctant to share honest feedback with each other for fear of emotional outbursts, arguments, and hurt feelings. I experienced it firsthand when my son literally jumped down my throat when I asked for details surrounding my grandson throwing up overnight. After explaining that I was about to take care of the child and needed to know, I forcefully admonished him not to become a naked emperor. He asked about that reference, and I recounted the tale of “The Emperor Has No Clothes” by Hans Christian Andersen. Without hesitation, he apologized.

Over the years, I’ve learned when to pick a fight and this one is worth having. Because I care deeply about my family’s wellbeing, and because I know it is impossible to make consistently wise decisions without reliable information and honest feedback, I’ve decided to bravely push forward with speaking up when I need to. I may take some uncomfortable arrows, but I’ll remind them of the emperor and let them decide whether to be naked or clothed. So much of the information we need comes from others, but if we cut people off because of our hyper-sensitivity, we limit both the volume and the quality of the information and feedback we receive. And that’s not healthy for us as individuals nor for our society.

Apparently, the Trump era Supreme Court nominees lied to the Senate and the American public when they said Roe v Wade was settled law. Trump promised his small percentage of religious right supporters that he would nominate pro-life justices who would overturn Roe v Wade and that promise looks like it might be fulfilled, despite the 80% of Americans in favor of keeping most provisions for abortion. While I am well past the time when I could be forced to bear a child, this decision still affects me because it will negatively affect people’s trust in one another and perhaps have an ill effect on people I care about. While I’ve never had an abortion, I did miscarry a child that never formed properly in my womb. It’s unbelievable that there are states looking to pass laws that would investigate miscarriages, truly making this a witch hunt. If abortion is murder, then I suppose that makes God Himself the biggest culprit. In an earlier post, I talked about my views on abortion and so I decided to repost some of those views with edits that incorporate our current state of affairs.

Just before I got married, I went to see my doctor to obtain a diaphragm to prevent pregnancy. We had plans to enjoy a few years together while establishing ourselves financially before starting a family. I used my new diaphragm and felt confident that it was doing its job, so much so that it took five trips to the doctor for “indigestion” and “nausea” and my insistence that “No, I couldn’t possibly be pregnant”, for a doctor to finally say, “Let’s do a pregnancy test anyway.” And to my great surprise, I was pregnant! Although, not in our immediate plans, we were happy about the news and welcomed our first baby girl in March 1979. But not everyone who gets pregnant unexpectedly is in the emotional, financial, and supportive network situation I enjoyed back then. Abortion had only recently become a legal option, but it wasn’t an option I needed to consider at the time. Years later, I became thankful that for those women who experienced the desperation of an unwanted pregnancy, a safe abortion was a viable option. I no longer believe abortion is murder and I have yet to meet a woman who would opt for a late-stage abortion without good reason.

Admittedly, my attitudes about abortion have evolved. Back in the early 1980s, I blindly followed the teachings from my conservative white evangelical pastors who became pro-life activists, strangely claiming like others today, that they were acting on behalf of the Almighty to stop “genocide”. The Republicans courted these single-issue voters who eventually cast aside all compassion for others in favor of casting judgment. It took the ugliness of intolerance, several sex scandals, and public moral failings among these men to disabuse me of the notion that they were true followers of Christ. I changed from being a follower of a pastor to a follower of Christ’ actual teachings. Among those changes in my belief system was my view on abortion.

I think it is a good thing that women today have multiple options to avoid pregnancy altogether, and so I hope many more take advantage of these options. However, I know personally, that contraception isn’t 100% effective. That said, I am shocked by the outrageous state laws being passed to prevent women from seeking to terminate an unwanted or unviable pregnancy, sometimes even before she realizes she is pregnant. It’s even more outrageous that a state would criminalize those trying to help her and that any state would offer bystanders a bounty to turn people in. The race to enact the strictest anti-abortion laws in Republican run states is absent both medical advice, fiscal considerations, and basic human compassion.

In particular, I’m furious by how intrusive the religious right and the Republicans are into the private affairs of women whom they don’t know nor care about. They think it is their place to insist that a woman proceed with an unwanted pregnancy, no matter the circumstances, as if that is somehow a simple and noble thing to do. These so call “freedom loving patriots” are happy to force their beliefs on others without compassion nor critical thinking nor any thought to the health, freedom, and lives of the girls and women affected. How dare they!

It is widely known in the medical field that giving birth is actually more life-threatening that surgical or medical abortion. And this is especially true in Texas. Close observers will note that nationally maternal deaths among Black women in particular is nearly 4 times higher than that of white women, and 10-17 times higher in the southern states like Texas. (The United States Maternal Mortality Rate Will Continue To Increase Without Access To Data | Health Affairs) One could easily argue that this isn’t a fight for the lives of the unborn, but an additional assault on the lives of black women who account for about a third of abortions in the country. Does anyone really believe that these white conservative lawmakers want to see a lot more black babies being born? I don’t.

I made my argument about why I don’t view abortion as murder in past posts. To recap, I view life as beginning with breath and the ability of a fetus to take a breath. I believe the womb is a place of formation of the temporary human body that a soul may one day occupy. A fetus doesn’t become a living soul until the breath of life. In Bible scripture we read that it wasn’t until God breathed life into the body of Adam, which He had formed out of dust of the earth, that Adam became a living soul. It is likely true that the midwifes in the early days of our nation, most of whom were black women and who regularly performed abortions before white doctors literally drove them out of the profession, believed the same thing. The idea that life begins at conception is pretty new and began in the pulpit, not the science lab. And the idea that a heartbeat is the start of life is also poor reasoning. The heart is simply a pump that can be transplanted from one person to another. In the womb, it starts pumping the mother’s blood. If these pro-lifers truly believed that begins at conception or with a heartbeat, then they should be having funerals for every miscarriage a woman has. Do they even realize that between 10-20 percent of known pregnancies end in naturally occurring miscarriage? And after age 40, nearly 50% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Many more women miscarry before they even know they are pregnant, and some estimate the number of miscarriages to be nearly a third of all pregnancies.

While I am outraged by the likelihood of the Supreme Court overturning Roe and the plethora of new laws being passed in Republican states, I realize that we should do a better job educating our daughters, granddaughters, nieces, cousins, and girlfriends about their alternatives so that surgical abortion isn’t even necessary in most cases. Although, in this day and age, I won’t bother to make a case for abstinence. So, first, there is contraception. Yes, it sometimes fails, but for the most part, it is quite effective. Second, there is the Plan B pill for those unexpected sexual encounters. Plan B prevents pregnancy from happening in the event of unprotected sex. Third, there are safe drugs to induce abortion if taken in the first eight weeks of pregnancy. Unfortunately, there are some states looking to ban these drugs altogether and to prevent women from obtaining them through the mail from out of state sources. In addition to educating ourselves, we need to elect lawmakers who have our best interest in mind.

It is necessary in the face of these draconian laws to preserve surgical abortion for those sad cases when the mother’s life is in danger or those rare cases of indecision due to changing circumstances or utter surprise. According to the CDC, abortion rates have been declining for years and that 92.2% of surgical abortions occur prior to 13 weeks’ gestation. That’s a good thing, but we can continue to do better if we educate and encourage the other women in our lives, particularly those in their 20’s who make up almost 58% of surgical abortions about the other options. It looks like denial, procrastination, immaturity, lack of access, and perhaps ignorance are the primary culprits that we should be addressing proactively so that we can collectively avoid an influx of unwelcome babies that we’ll all have to support. With total bans becoming likely in 26 states, women seeking abortion will have to travel out of state to obtain the care they need. This may be difficult if not impossible for poor women. The result will be a rise in infant mortality, maternal mortality, poverty and the crime that accompanies it.

And finally, to the religious pro-lifers who insist that abortion is murder and must be stopped at all costs, I would ask them to consider the actual science and then look at the lives of the young women involved, the fathers, and the innocent babies they are forcing to be born into circumstances that are far from ideal. These same legislators who want to ban all abortions also refuse adequate support for food, healthcare, childcare, and education, essentially condemning these women and their children to poverty. So, if care for life is really all that important, then please begin by 1) supporting sex education and contraception, 2) improving maternal care for black women, 3) ensuring adequate support resources, and 4) for all our sakes, get vaccinated and wear a mask in public and mandate the wearing of mask in schools.

For the rest of us, it is imperative to exercise our civic responsibility by voting for lawmakers who will protect a woman’s right to choose when and if she will bring children into this world. Let’s start by defying history and increasing Democratic representation in local and national elections this year.

Several times a week, I listen to C-Span Washington Journal to listen to the opinions of average Americans on topics of real concern that are rooted in political policy making. More times than not, I am disappointed by the comments and the people making them. So many are painfully misinformed, uneducated, and illogical. However, they are very passionate, and I don’t necessarily blame them. I blame us. We, the American public, have allowed our flow of information to be contaminated by a few wealthy individuals, corporations, and foreign actors, even though we are aware that no one can make wise decisions when the underlying facts are flawed, hidden, or misrepresented. It is scary to listen to people who are angry, frustrated, and terrified because news organizations, bots, and our own elected officials have convinced them that their lives and livelihoods are in constant danger.

I would be disingenuous if I claimed that the level of truth manipulation was the same for Republicans and Democrats because I don’t believe that to be the case at all. The evidence is showing that people who watch Fox News, are on social media, and listen to conservative talk shows are being fed a steady diet of contrived and unsubstantiated accusations against Democrats, teachers, labor unions, the LGBTQ community, immigrants, people of color, and liberal activists. All the while, relevant information, science research, and contextual history is being withheld from them on a regular basis. I agree with President Biden’s remark at the White House Correspondent’s Dinner last night about the job of the press being to inform and not inflame. He insisted that truth mattered for a healthy Republic. And Trevor Noah in his more serious remarks stated how a free press has a huge responsibility to provide the truth. But we all know that too many in the press are too busy trying to enrage and entertain for viewer ratings that translate into advertising dollars. They know that anger and outrage garners more clicks and views even when it is fabricated.

It’s no wonder conservatives are continually terrified that their children are brainwashed by critical race theory, gender and sexuality realities, and science itself. They are encouraged to believe that Democrats gladly open the Southern border to people who steal our jobs, traffic drugs, commit violent crimes, and spread disease and most importantly vote illegally for Democrats in elections. They absorb repeated suggestions that the pandemic was orchestrated by Democrats to control people and steal their liberties. They believe that high gas prices were designed by Democrats to force them switch to renewable energy. They are repeatedly told that Biden is senile and that his son is a criminal. They believe Democratic policies caused inflation, ignoring a pandemic that shut down production and supply lines. And of course, they believe that Democrats are socialists, abortionists, and pedophiles hellbent on destroying America and eliminating police departments. The list goes on.

In the interest of viewership and monetary gain, the conservative press introduces more and more false accusations every day to fuel a culture war based on outright lies, exaggerations, omissions, and the misrepresentations of facts. Social media companies benefit financially from a culture war, so they highlight the outrage rather than the truth. Beyond monetary gains for the conservative press and social media, the Republican Party supports the lies and misinformation in order to win elections without ever putting forth a policy agenda to actually tackle problems in healthcare, inflation, income inequalities, immigration, future pandemics, climate change, and gun violence. Foreign actors have their own agenda to destabilize the country from within through division and they are finding success. China and Russia are aware that a nation divided against itself cannot stand and so they are using our free press and freedom of speech against us.

The irony is that Republicans like to lay claim to Christianity and Bible teachings as their foundation. But in my humble Christian opinion, they have replaced some fundamental truths in service to their greed for money and power. One of the Ten Commandments makes it a sin to levy false accusations against another person. My Bible tells me that God hates liars. Lying is a sin and I guess they forgot that Jesus said that it is the truth that will set us free and that the devil is a liar and the father of lies. And as I recall, all liars have hell waiting for them. They’ve forgotten Jesus’ lesson about welcoming strangers and outcasts and not judging others. They’ve forgotten that we are called to help the poor, the sick, and the prisoner. This Republican Party that so many “Christians” support and vote into office do not stand for any of these values and certainly do not follow any of these principles. These white Republican Christians today have turned into some of the most hateful people around. They claim to protect children, yet they allowed Trump to separate infants from their parents at the border as a punitive measure. They think preventing abortion puts them on God’s side when nearly 1/3 pregnancies end in miscarriage. Does that make God an abortionist, eliminating even more babies in the womb than all the doctors on the planet combined? Or are these simply human bodies under construction that will one day contain an eternal human soul with the first breath of life? And we all know they are okay with allowing babies to wallow in poverty once they are born.

With all that said, the time has come for us to demand the truth from our news media and from lawmakers. We need to demand that social media companies remove the divisive foreign actors on their platforms. It is our civil and moral responsibility to hold news outlets, lawmakers, companies, and our friends and family accountable for creating and spreading lies, misinformation, false accusations and exaggerated nonsense. It’s important because we rely on accurate information to make good decisions about our lives and our livelihoods. Our future, our children’s futures, and that of our country and the planet itself are at stake.