Freedom at risk

I’m fascinated and horrified by the new show on Hulu, “The Handmaid’s Tale“.  It intensified the empathy I feel for my ancestors who were slaves in this country and for the millions of people living under the tyranny of religious zealots like the Taliban or despots like in North Korean.  It reminded me that today there are many people still enduring the torment of slavery around the world, and even in our own country.  I realized as I watched the first four episodes, that falling prey to tyrannical rule is possible if we aren’t vigilant. Continue reading “Freedom at risk”

Finding Self-acceptance

I know who I am and who I am not.  So, after a long day of work, Friday evening I agreed to tag along with my talent agent daughter to watch one of her clients perform in the theater production of “Sister Act”.  And why not?  The orchestra seats were complimentary and I’ve wanted to see the production for a while.  What I neglected to take into  consideration before agreeing to the excursion was that I’m an introvert and my daughter is an extrovert.  So, I was in for an exceptionally long evening beyond the play itself.  When I finally got home, I was exhausted,  but we were both deeply satisfied as Type A, driven, achievers. Continue reading “Finding Self-acceptance”

Abuse of Power

I’ve spent my life being on the receiving side of an abuse of power by males. Admittedly, there is little I have done to hold my abusers accountable and I feel a degree of shame behind it.  Until now, my response has been to acknowledge the abuse is happening and then to either cut and run or bear the pain of the situation in silence.  Perhaps my behavior is what it is because the cost of holding the abuser accountable is too high.  I think a lot of women can relate. Continue reading “Abuse of Power”

To Error is Human

We all make mistakes.  We make them because we are perfectly human.  But a work colleague and I both noticed that the frequency of human errors that affect our daily lives have become so frequent as to be more than merely annoying, but a bit scary.  I have to challenge the work habits of many in the workforce today.  It is not okay to adopt a cavalier attitude about mistakes.  The massive amount of errors supports the claim of employers that it’s difficult to find good help these days. I write this week’s post at the behest of my work colleague.  Continue reading “To Error is Human”

Studentsensitivity

I love my job because I get to spend my days with college students.  I love their energy, their enthusiasm, and their general idealism.   These days, college professors and administrators are taking a lot of heat from the public for what some say is coddling or overprotection in the form of safe zones, trigger warnings, and a focus on micro-aggressions. Our critics say that we aren’t allowing students to learn how to deal with adversity.  I wonder if we haven’t gone too far in our desire to create a welcoming and inclusive campus climate. Continue reading “Studentsensitivity”

I’m for Single Payer Healthcare

Insurance wouldn’t cover  it, so I forked over $206 for a Shingles vaccine at my annual physical this week because I had the money. Having the money substantially decreases the probability that I would fall victim to that painful, scaring, and scary looking disease called Shingles that can cause permanent nerve damage.  But what about the man or woman who doesn’t have $206 lying around?  Should prudent healthcare continue to be a privilege rather than a right? Continue reading “I’m for Single Payer Healthcare”

Springtime

I love springtime.  It is by far my favorite time of the year. I love the blooming flowers, the cool weather, and the green hillsides.  For someone who loves spring as much as me, it seems peculiar that I wasn’t born or even conceived in the spring.  The coming of spring holds a special promise of hope, life and renewal.  Maybe I love spring because all my children were born in the spring.  Graduation ceremonies happen in the spring.  Spring also brings with it a special set of transitional tasks that I fully embrace every year. Continue reading “Springtime”

My Cautious Brain

I’ve never been a thrill-seeker.  I first learned discovered my aversion to heights and speed on a trip to Magic Mountain with friends when I was about 14. Until that day, I had never made a connection between fun and danger.  So, I had no fear during the 30-minute wait to board the biggest roller coaster I had ever seen in my life. But what happened after the ride should have caused me great embarrassment, but I don’t recall feeling that way at all.

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Known and Loved Chapel Talk

I stood there in silent shock and dismay as I was introduced to a group of people by someone I had just recently met.  And by recently, I mean we had been working together for a few months.  The introduction beyond my name and title included a bizarre reference to my beautiful singing voice.  I would have been fine with that as it was meant to be a compliment, except for a few minor details.  Continue reading “Known and Loved Chapel Talk”