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There is a segment of our country who choose to believe that straight Christian white men are the rightful leaders of government, society, and industry based solely on their skin color, maleness, and Christian identity. Their rise to power through unbridled greed, exploitation, theft and exclusion through the use of violence and intimidation makes them think they’ve earned the right to dominate everyone on the planet. It was never talent or wisdom or intelligence that put them in charge; it was their propensity to kill and intimidate. These men have always lacked the moral compass that evokes empathy and compassion for others. Their egos make them reckless. And they continue to demonstrate their short-sighted belief that “might makes right”.

Unfortunately, they have managed to convince some straight white women that they can live comfortably under their protection. So, they, too, uphold this absurd patriarchy along with the myth of white supremacy. It is only when a husband dies or betrays them that they discover their own helplessness under the flawed system they trusted to take care of them. Many end up destitute or remarry anyone who brings in a paycheck, no matter how he treats them or their children. I pity the modern “trad” wives who will eventually learn the hard lessons of their uneducated misguided grandmothers.

Beyond recognizing the inevitable plight of the trad wife, I recognize that common sense and history repeatedly prove that talent and ambition are not concentrated within one group of people and that rebellion against cruel and unfair power structures in always inevitable. There will always be people who recognize the humanity in people beyond skin color, gender, language and culture. There will also be people who hate unfairness with every fiber of their being. These people appreciate the fact that talent, creativity, and intelligence are spread across the human race. They possess empathy and compassion. They despise cruelty and violence used to oppress, exploit, and torture others for person gain. And they despise the cowards who ignore the human suffering of others at the hands of the greedy degenerates. These are the humanitarians who birthed the DEI movement.

As a person who worked at the forefront of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) efforts at the university level since the late 1990s when it was first established as a movement, I always knew that a backlash was inevitable. The seeds of opposition were being planted every time the doors to opportunity were opened to women and people of color. The seeds were watered every time qualified women or persons of color were placed in positions that white men believed belonged to them, especially when the woman or person of color excelled in the position. The seeds blossomed every time the creativity, talents, intelligence, and successes of women and people of color were publicly recognized. As their false narrative of white male superiority was exposed for the farce that it is, they grew increasingly fearful of being “replaced” for their mediocrity was exposed to everyone. I knew that the oversized egos of violent men who lack empathy and compassion would lash out. I knew that those who have exclusively enjoyed positions of power and a privileged place in society would not easily forfeit both the obvious and the invisible benefits bestowed on them from every sector of society. And, unfortunately, I was right.

These people, mostly white men, grew up being afforded the benefit of the doubt from the justice system, from teachers, bankers, the media, and from employers. They were accustomed to being promoted based on charm, good looks, and relationships, and not necessarily merit. They were accustomed to laws being made in their favor and government structures being designed to propel them upward and to protect them from disaster. White men were the initial benefactors of social security, the GI Bill, farm aid, land grants, bank loans, government bailouts and other government programs to extend their opportunities and to build their wealth while people of color and women were explicitly excluded from the same wealth building opportunities and protections. For most of this country’s history, they kept the right to vote within their purview, denying others a say.

As a result, white city governments routinely channeled resources to white neighborhoods and away from areas where people of color were forced to live. White schools were better funded, utilities and infrastructure in white neighborhoods was better, and even the air and water were cleaner because polluting industries were relegated to the areas where black and brown people lived. Entire sectors of employment were closed to women and people of color. And it was the job of police to ensure that black and brown people didn’t demand better than they got. Every hint of rebellion was met with violence. Even black towns that thrived despite the obstacles were visited with certain destruction by angry white mobs.

In the era of Trump and his white supremacist associates like Steve Bannon, Mike Johnson, Elon Musk, and Steven Miller, the use of force is again front and center. They demonize black and brown people with false accusations designed to justify their heinous actions. It wasn’t an accident or the work of a staffer when Trump posted a meme of the Obamas as apes a few days ago. Trump has deputized people willing to terrorize and rid the country of as many black and brown people as possible through unlawful detainment and deportations. They have halted the legal immigration of people of color while welcoming white people. And now they are actively working to prevent people from exercising their right to vote, even floating the idea of federalizing all elections (unconstitutional) and using ICE agents as voter intimidation.

The problem is that too many people have evolved to recognize evil. I’m happy J.D. Vance was openly booed at the Opening Ceremony of the Olympics on Friday. More people recognize that cruelty and violence as tools of intimidation and extortion are inhumane and intolerable. With the benefit of history, many people reject the notion of white supremacy and domination. Many people in this country have come to embrace the reality that our diversity has been the strength of this nation. They recognize that equity is simply fairness, not preference based on race or gender or religion. And they understand that including everyone in decision making, celebrations, and as contributors to the American culture enriches our lives and doesn’t detract from it.

It’s going to require increased boldness and bravery from moral humans to continue to stand up against Trump and MAGA and the white suprematist who want to return to the days of oppression, cruelty, and white male dominance. Those were not the good ole days; those were the days of terror for all but a few. It’s clear that corporate leaders, university leaders, media leaders, Republican leaders, military leaders and even some church leaders lack the moral courage to do what they know is right in this time of peril. How disappointed we are in them. And when this is over, they should all be replaced.

So, it is up to us regular citizens to use every tool in our toolbox to fight against this evil administration and the wealthy white supremacists who finance them. We are not the silent citizens of Hitler’s Germany. We’ve learned the lesson that silence is complicity. So, we make a lot of noise this time in protest. History and justice have repeatedly shown that the power of the people is ultimately greater than the people in power.

On Friday my frustrated husband lamented that Trump has broken everything. This came after hearing that Don Lemon, acting as a journalist, had been arrested by the Department of Justice in clear violation of the First Amendment. The arrest was appalling because it flies in the face of everything we have come to expect with regards to our Constitutional rights, especially freedom of the press. We’re watching one wicked violation after another. It’s as though the basic morality and common decency we expect in our society is being challenged by evil people in power. It’s as though the Constitution itself no longer exists. But it does exist. What we are seeing is that the mechanisms to enforce morality, decency and even the Constitution are weak if not missing altogether because a truly evil person is in power.

A perfect example of this is the fact that the Senate failed to remove Trump from office, relying instead on the Justice system to prosecute his criminal behavior. Merrick Garland started too late and the courts took too long to get to trial. Despite the Constitution provisions against it, Trump was permitted to run for president in 2024 after engaging in an insurrection. Many law scholars thought the 14th Amendment of the Constitution was automatic in its enforcement, (like having to be 35 years old, born in the U.S., or serving for only two terms as president). But it wasn’t. Seeking enforcement, several state attorney generals took up the issue, leading to a Colorado judge ruling that Trump was disqualified from being on their state ballot because the events of January 6th were ruled an insurrection. However, the Supreme Court ruled that states lack the authority to disqualify federal candidates. Unfortunately, the Supreme Court decided that only Congress had the authority to enforce the disqualification provision of the Constitution. And under an intimidated or complicit Republican Congress, the issue was promptly pushed aside, and Trump was allowed to run again.

This Republican Congress and compromised Supreme Court have abdicated their duties as the second and third co-equal branches of government, rendering the mechanisms to enforce the Constitution powerless. In particular, this Republican Congress stands silently by as Trump repeatedly violates the Constitution because members are terrified of losing a job they aren’t even doing. We continuously watch Trump violate the emoluments clause in the Constitution that prohibits federal officeholders from receiving gifts or payments from foreign states without congressional consent. The Republicans did absolutely nothing when Trump accepted a $400 million plane from Qatar.

The tariffs he placed on the entire world were in violation of the Constitution as the right to impose tariffs clearly belongs to Congress. And yet, we are leaving it to a compromised Supreme Court to rule on something so clearly stated in the Constitution. This is the same Court that shocked Constitutional scholars by granting the president immunity if he breaks the law in his role as president. The fact that the Supreme Court is even giving a hearing to issues like birthright citizenship, declaring war without Congress, tariff powers, and other Constitutional absolutes that we assumed were clearly stated as the law of the land for the past 250 years is disturbing and destabilizing.

The violation of the rights of citizens to protest, to be secure in their home and person, and to due process, are being trampled upon by government sanctioned thugs on our streets without any mechanism to stop them. The Fourth Amendment reads: The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.” ICE agents are clearly violating the Constitution every time they kidnap and detain people without warrants, based solely on their skin color or accent. They call these “Kavanaugh stops” because Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh issued a bench ruling allowing ICE to briefly question people based on their skin color, accent, and occupation. However, ICE has exploited the ruling, violently denying basic civil rights. The moment they chase and tackle people to the ground, confiscate a cell phone, break someone’s window, knock down a door, or seize a person without a warrant, they are violating the Constitution. We all know it, but we are helpless to stop it. Brave bystanders video tape the atrocities for the world to see. We’ve seen that those who try to intervene to protect victims are being arrested, pepper sprayed or worse, shot dead.

It feels horrible to watch our Constitution being trampled upon. Decent people are angry and frustrated like my husband because the mechanisms and people who are supposed to protect and defend the Constitution have been co-opted by people appointed to positions of power who are clearly violating their oath to protect and defend the Constitution against all enemies, both foreign and domestic. Instead, the leaders of the Department of Justice, the FBI, the Department of Defense (War), and the Department of Homeland Security have brazenly replaced their oath to the Constitution with a loyalty pledge to Donald Trump. And the Republican Congress is silent and complicit, too cowardly to do their job. The same is true of the majority of Supreme Court justices who have taken bribes or who subscribe to white Christian nationalism.

We have a mob boss in the White House who brazenly threatens, bullies, bribes, extorts, and seeks retribution against those who oppose him. His brutal tactics have undermined the mechanisms designed to enforce our Constitution and the rule of law. His attitude is that of a naughty child who says to his teacher or parent, “Make me!” The problem is that those who have the legal and Constitutional authority to “make him” have repeatedly backed down. Even corporate leaders and corporate news organizations have bent the knee because this president has seized the authority to destroy their businesses using the levers of government.

So, it is up to we, the people, to “make him”. We must continue to peacefully protest in the streets like yesterday and the past several weeks. We must continue to create songs and other works of art to oppose this lawlessness. We must continue to cut off Trump supporters from social circles. We must continue to speak truth to power by calling and writing to our representatives. We must continue to use our economic boycott power to pressure businesses that support Trump to stop. We must applaud FBI agents and government lawyers and military generals who quit their jobs in protest. We must support public media like NPR and PBS. We must support organizations that sue the Administration for violations of the Constitution. Scott Galloway is calling on people to lean on corporate media profits by cutting down on streaming services. And this November we must go to the polls and vote for candidates that are brave and boldly committed to standing up for the Constitution and to holding all of the lawbreakers accountable.

I responded to my husband’s frustration that I view this as an opportunity to rebuild what was broken into something stronger. We now recognize the weaknesses that allowed one maniac to wreak havoc on our country and the world. Once we have rid ourselves of him and his followers, we can replace what was broken with something much better and far more resilient.

I never imagined our country would be in this position. And yet, here we are with the 2026 version of the gestapo killing citizens and dragging suspected immigrants off to detention centers without regard to their legal status. I never imagined that our government would encourage ICE agents to ignore laws and to brutally attack citizens who exercise their constitutional rights to free speech and to peacefully assemble. The courts have explicitly said that citizens have the right to videotape the actions of ICE, and yet ICE repeatedly rejects that right.

I never imagined that our government would lie about citizens whom they have injured (or murdered) to excuse the brutality of their under-trained violent and thin-skinned ICE agents who violate the civil rights of citizens and the human rights of black and brown suspected immigrants. To be clear, they aren’t going after criminals as they proport; they are going after large detention numbers, especially if the detainees are people of color. This is about ethnic cleansing. The architects of this policy and those who endorse it envision a nation that is whiter and continues to be dominated by white males. They fear diversity. They fear equity. They fear inclusion. They realize that the majority of white people are far too insecure and incompetent to compete in the classroom and the workplace on a level playing field, so they are trying to protect their privilege. The rich white men in power are using their power to hang perpetuate a myth of their superiority. A quick observation of the silence and inaction of Republican leadership, corporate leaders, and military leaders tells us everything we need to know. Their silence and inaction are complicity.

But it will not work. The Trump assertion that might makes right, is crumbling before our eyes as principled people, artists, intellectuals, journalists, judges, and leaders around the world join together in opposition to his bullying. Some prosecutors, politicians, and FBI agents are simply quitting. We the people are joining hands in opposition to the tyranny that is trying to take root in our communities and our country. The opposition is not quiet.

I’m glad the Super Bowl is featuring Bad Bunny and Green Day. Both speak openly against the tyranny of Trump. Actors at award shows have a lot to say. Comedians aren’t holding back. I’m glad that Trump is booed when he shows up to public events. I’m happy to see the rise of independent media outlets to report the news since Trump co-opted traditional media outlets like CBS. I admire the people of Minnesota who have bravely taken to the streets to protest the ICE disruption and terror in their state. They are protesting in sub-zero temperatures. They are confronting ICE and taking videos of their lawlessness to inform the nation of the danger to our morality and our freedom. The crowds are notably filled with white people standing up against a white suprematist agenda.

What has made this country prosperous is our diversity. People from all over the world have contributed innovation, blood, and sweat to build this nation from the ground up. Americans from all backgrounds have fought in our wars. Notably, the billionaire president was himself a draft-dodger. The continued hypocrisy on so many fronts is appalling. It is clear that those who claim this nation was built solely by white people and for white people are either dishonest or delusional. Those choosing to bury the atrocities of native American genocide, of slavery and Jim Crowe, and the years of Chinese exclusion and Japanese internment camps are dishonest. We won’t allow history to be erased.

In addition to this, there are those who cling to the belief that white people are inherently better than others. If they would only open their eyes to see the reality that talent, intelligence, ambition, grit, courage, and creativity are distributed across the entirety of humanity and our strength has come from welcoming the best and the brightest and the hardest working to our country. We are a nation of immigrants. We have benefited from having people of all backgrounds embrace our country. And yet, it burdens and threatens enough white people to observe black, brown, and yellow excellence.

So, I stand with the white people of Minnesota. I will resist the anti-immigrant narrative and the ethnic cleansing of our country in whatever way possible. Even though it is difficult to watch, I will spend time each day watching the videos taken by brave citizens intended to keep us informed and to sound the alarm. I will not turn away or be silent like the citizens of Germany when Hitler was rounding up the Jews. Just like the Gestapo, ICE will begin going door to door. In a nation of 300 million people, it is estimated that 11 million may be here illegally. And honestly, only a tiny percentage of them are dangerous criminals. The rest are hard working. They are contributing to our local economies and paying taxes. It is a lie that they are voting. Every cost analysis we have has shown that they are contributing more to the economy than the few benefits they are getting.

Like any reasonable person, I am bothered by the constant lying coming from government officials. I am bothered by the mischaracterization of immigrants. I am more bothered that a third of the country are either unaware or so gullible or so filled with prejudice that they’ve embraced xenophobia and the brutality it causes.

It bothers me even more that our tax dollars are being used to fund lawless brutal ICE agents. If there was a way to withhold my tax dollars from being wasted by this ridiculous government under Trump, I would. For now, I’m willing to peacefully protest and to write to our representatives to express my displeasure with our tax dollars being used to fund ICE. I’m willing to boycott corporate media outlets in favor of independent media. I’m willing to help fund organizations that fight the lawlessness in court and the organizations that organize peaceful resistance efforts. And I’m willing to vote wisely this November to elect men and women who will defend our nation from this tyranny and hold these ICE thugs accountable.

I know there are people who are willing to take this further. I’ve seen the fully armed Black Panthers walking the streets to defend against ICE. The terror and lawlessness of ICE agents must end before bloodshed erupts across the nation. This is a country with more guns than people and a second amendment that protects the right to use that gun in self-defense. Imagine masked ICE agents breaking down a door without a warrant and being greeted by gun fire. It’s not far-fetched.

It is our responsibility to collectively reject Trump’s demand for a 50% increase in military funding. He wants our tax dollars and our children’s lives to fuel his imperial ambitions, not deliver healthcare, housing, infrastructure, and a safety net for Americans. Trump is an egotistical bully who wants to rule other countries and steal their resources to line his pockets and those of his billionaire buddies. And he is willing to use his power to silence us into submission with his private police force: ICE. If he is allowed to continue, the blood shed that ensues will be that of the average citizen, not his family members.

However, he has learned nothing from history. In fact, if reincarnation was a thing, I would wager that Trump is the reincarnation of Adolf Hitler. His instincts are no different and I pray that his demise in disgrace will be no different. I also pray that this time we the people do not allow him to drag the entire nation down with him. It’s beginning to look like his failure is eminent if we continue to loudly resist.

I have mixed emotions about the increasing role artificial intelligence has in our society. On the one hand, I gladly pay the extra $40 each year for AI to read my mammogram results in addition to the experienced radiologist. I enjoy playing backgammon against an AI opponent almost daily. My eldest daughter and I used AI to create an issue-specific children’s book for my grandsons. For the book, AI took the details of my prompt and generated a nice story along with beautiful illustrations. I admit to feeling conflicted about not employing an illustrator and bypassing the publishing industry altogether. But with minimal tweaking, the book is in the hands of my grandsons and available for purchase on Amazon.

Like many, I’ve grown accustomed to being greeted by AI when I make business phone calls. I don’t balk at AI suggesting responses in text messages or when it informs me that it’s time to stand up and move around. I allow it to vacuum my floors, choose my next YouTube video or Instagram reel, remind me of appointments and answer simple questions. Several times each day, I ask it to set timers and alarms and to call people on the phone for me. I appreciate real time driving directions and language translations. AI tracks my steps and does its best to anticipate my future needs based on my past actions and preferences. In many ways, AI has made my life easier, but I’m still not utilizing most of its current capacity. Perhaps I never will especially since those humanoid robots scare me. And I’m wary of some of the other things it can do.

Friday night, my oldest daughter came for a visit. As a business owner, she is really into utilizing ChatGPT to help her gather data, organize her work, and inform business decisions. She allows it to generate emails on her behalf and a host of other things. She loves it. But the two of us agreed that content we find online is becoming difficult to determine whether or not it is real. AI generated content on the internet and on social media has proliferated to a great extent. AI can create great songs utilizing AI generated voices, music, and lyrics. Even the performer can be AI generated. There is a popular gospel song performed by a beautiful black female artist that we couldn’t decide was real. After much research, it was evident that there was no definite answer to be found, only widespread speculation.

This isn’t good. I’m happy to laugh at AI generated videos of infants having fun with their parents or fishermen rescuing ocean wildlife or animals behaving like humans. So much of it is “AI slop”, meaning the quality is so low that you can tell it is AI generated. But there is other AI generated content that is dangerous in that the quality is so good that it’s difficult to know whether what one is listening to or watching is reality. In a society that makes decisions based on information, the corruption of information is dangerous. When we can no longer determine the veracity of what someone said or did because their image, voice, and location have been hijacked, we have a problem. That’s what we are seeing happen in real time. AI is here and the time for regulation is overdue. I don’t think the marketplace is strong enough or fast enough to protect us from the harms at our doorstep.

Admittedly, there are other aspects of AI that I have not yet embraced. I still haven’t hired a driverless vehicle. I’m not quite comfortable yet. I’m clear that I won’t ever be cool with AI companions taking the place of actual human interaction. But I can see how elderly shut-ins might benefit. But I’m fearful for all the young people, particularly young men, who are substituting AI girlfriends for flesh and blood women. I’m concerned about AI therapists. I’m concerned about the AI hallucinations and about its propensity to resort to blackmail for self-preservation. Just as concerning is the number of talented and smart people who are losing their jobs to AI. Songwriters, illustrators, receptions, secretaries, teachers, factory workers, actors, drivers, data analysist, and many others are being replaced by AI.

My daughter calls it progress. She’s confident that people will find other things to do to make themselves useful. I suppose she is right. But I do worry that this disruption is different from that of the past where paths to adaptation and other opportunities seemed much more obvious. I’m worried about the corruption of information and the harm it will cause. I’m worried that young people will lose their ability to build healthy, real-life relationships and I’m worried about a whole society of bored young people living without purpose.

AI is here to stay. How we feel about it and how we respond to it is the question. However, I am convinced that banning all regulation of AI as Trump has announced, is not the wise thing to do.

My husband and I toasted in the New Year with a prayer that 2026 would be a better year than 2025 for our country. So far, our prayers have not been answered with the invasion of Venezuela, the threats against other sovereign nations, brutal ICE raids, more lies, the defunding of childcare in five blue states. and the shooting of protesting Americans by under-trained thinned-skinned ICE agents.

It’s difficult to escape the angst and anger coming from everyday people. I walked into a local store the day after Renee Nicole Good was murdered by ICE agent Jonathan Ross. Five or six unrelated customers at the checkout stand were engaged in a collective venting of their anger and frustration with the actions of the current administration. From the store entrance, I could hear them clearly. They called for the removal of Trump and replacing him with almost anyone. One guy said he would be happier to have Honey Bo Bo as president. In that same store, a gentleman shared his story of how an ICE agent turned his gun on him and his friends at a protest. Another said that his wife is a childcare provider and she is expected to work without pay because the president just cut off childcare funding.

The outrage is everywhere, including inside me. I’m furious at the gaslighting that followed what every video and eyewitness account proves was an unjustified murder by ICE. True to form, this administration hired incompetent, inexperienced, unethical, and cruel people to terrorize immigrants, black and brown people, and anyone who dares to confront their lawlessness. And Vice President Vance adds fuel to the fire by claiming that these lawless ICE agents who are violently tackling people in the streets, denying basic civil rights, kidnapping folks, destroying personal property, trespassing, and now killing people have “absolute immunity”. That cannot be true, and his dangerous claim is already being challenged by the attorney general in Minnesota.

I’m thankful there are protests breaking out all over the country. I’m glad people are speaking up in the stores, at the senior center, and at all sorts of social gatherings. Americans are finally waking up to the reality that the threats to our lives and livelihoods are real. The Epstein Files was a rude awakening for many. But they are also realizing that our tax dollars are funding masked thugs parading as ICE agents rounding up men, women and children and disappearing them without regard to their legal right to be in this country. People are waking up to the fact that the Republicans have no plan to provide affordable health insurance, protect our freedoms, or to defend the rule of law. People are seeing an out-of-control outbreak of measles and the flu and the defunding of critical health research. They are watching the co-opting of news outlets and the frightened by the promise that AI is going to take their jobs. The fact that tariffs have driven prices up, that some goods are disappearing from our store shelves, and that job growth has slowed while the social safety net is being destroyed is finally becoming apparent. Women are experiencing a health care dessert as OBGYNs flee red states. Other women are finding it impossible to get the healthcare they need in an emergency. And no one except defense contractors and the tech companies benefit from our country invading weaker countries to steal their oil and rare earth minerals under the guise of drug trafficking or national security.

I predict that 2026 will be the year of revolution. And revolutions are never pretty. I feel the temperature rising to the boiling point among everyday people. Some political historians say it only takes 3.5% of a population to rise up to overthrow a government. I predict that we are getting there pretty fast. I hope the protests remain peaceful, but with the level of outrage bubbling up, I doubt that will be possible much longer.

In 2026, I will remain peaceful. I will support competent candidates who defend the Constitution, adhere to the rule of law, work on behalf of the American people, and who vow to hold these bad actors accountable. I will keep funding organizations that file lawsuits in defense of our democracy and the rule of law. These include the ACLU, the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, Democracy Forward, and the Democracy Defenders Fund. I will also continue to donate to Indivisible and Women’s March Network because I support citizen resistance efforts.

Above all else, I will follow the teachings of Jesus. I will love my family and neighbors more fiercely than ever. I will be kind to strangers. I will keep doing my part to protect the environment by composting, recycling, conserving energy, and using reusable shopping bags. I will continue to volunteer and to donate to organizations that feed the hungry, address healthcare needs, provide micro-finance, assist women, and provide scholarships to students. The organizations I donate to as a monthly commitment include Unicef, Doctors Without Borders, St. Jude, Black Mammas Matter Alliance, World Food Program, FINCA, and Women for Women International. Others I give to in response to the ask include the Red Cross, The Los Angeles Children’s Hospital, World Central Kitchen, and various scholarship funds. My husband also donates to the American Cancer Society.

Anger takes a lot of energy. It must be channeled. I have my moments of ranting on social media and writing letters to lawmakers, but mostly I channel my energy by praying and loving others around me by being kind and being present with them. I take walks, crochet, and donating funds to those on the front lines. When there is a boycott or a peaceful protest, I’ll participate. Allowing my anger to fester and eat me up isn’t a healthy option. Left unchanneled, anger disrupts sleep and causes stress. I share what I’m doing to inspire my readers to find positive ways to channel their own angst and anger. If everyone contributes a little, the movement toward accountability and the end of this lawlessness will be faster.  

I’m still praying that 2026 will be a better year for our country. But I am also doing what I can to make that happen.

My husband and I began the year with a prayer that 2026 will be a far better year for our country than 2025. However, since the bombing of Venezuela and the kidnapping of its president and his wife and the admission that this is not about drugs, but about stealing Venezuelan oil and minerals, I decided that I need another week to contemplate my own resistant response to the corruption, cruelty and greed that confronts us. I hope you will do the same.

See you next week. And I’m still praying with the understanding that faith without works is dead. I just need to determine what the works should be this year. I’m praying for divine wisdom and courage.

I appreciate the time my readers spend analyzing my reflections on the world each week. I also value the time when I get to invest in family and friends, particularly during the holidays. So, I’m taking a break to be fully present with the people I love until the first Sunday in January 2026 this year. If you’re looking for something to read, please use this time to read or re-read one of my many past posts.

It’s human to pursue a comfortable and fulfilling life. It’s also human to want to pass on a good lifestyle to our children and grandchildren. I think humans are very basic in their needs as Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs posits. Once our basic needs for food and shelter and safety are met, we seek connection to others and personal fulfilment. I’m thankful that my basic needs are comfortably met by the grace of God, my own hard work, and the lucky time and place in which I was born. Of course, it helped to have a warm, smart and supportive mother who convinced me that I could succeed and who sacrificed much to ensure that I had opportunities. She went to bat for me on several occasions to ensure I could go through certain doors.

I wasn’t born a slave like my close ancestors and legal segregation was just ending as I grew up. Even though I was a top student, it took Affirmative Action to open the previously closed doors to prestigious universities and professional employment. It took an end to housing discrimination to allow me to purchase a home in a safe and high economic growth area with excellent schools. These are all required to build a comfortable and prosperous life in this country. I enjoyed connections and personal fulfillment. Building generational emotional and financial wealth is a top priority for me, so I invest heavily in the futures of my children and grandchildren.

The troubling thing is that too many people wish to return to the days when opportunities were reserved for white men only and when talent, ambition, and a great work ethic mean less than the whiteness of someone’s skin color. If we were to deport all the smart, hardworking, talented and creative non-white immigrants and dry up the opportunities for ambitious women and people of color, this country will collapse under its own incompetence, ignorance, and lack of talent.

It was our diversity and immigration that built this country. These have been our strengths. The white pilgrims wouldn’t have survived without the help of the native people already living here when they arrived. Innovation, intelligence, problem-solving skills, a great work ethic, and competence exist within all skin colors and so does ambition and the pursuit of a comfortable and a fulfilling life. Our superpower as a nation has come from attracting the most determined among humanity to live and work within our borders. Just getting here is an act of courage, tenacity, and faith. I wouldn’t be so quick to turn people like that away.

The only people who are angry about immigrants are the under-educated, under-motivated, and the lazy. They are the people unable to compete, so they want to eliminate the competition. Politicians have convinced them that all their problems will be solved if they get rid of the immigrants who came here seeking a better life and who willingly employ their hard work, innovation, and skills that make this country stronger. Many even serve in the military. Whether they are here legally after navigating a ridiculously laborious and expensive (and broken) immigration system or they are here illegally by crossing the border or overstaying their visa, on the whole they contribute more to the country than they are taking from it. They pay taxes. They commit far fewer crimes than the general population. They start and support businesses. And they don’t collect from the public safety pools they pay into like Social Security or Medicare. My solution is not an open border, but a smart and reliable, fully funded immigration system that has more immigration judges than ICE agents.

It is in our collective best interest to educate immigrant children and to provide basic healthcare. The very people who complain about immigrants have forgotten that legal immigration is a relatively new process and has always been riddled with racism, fraud, and inefficiencies. Elon Musk broke the terms of his visa and Melania Trump wasn’t even eligible for the visa she obtained. Our immigration system has never made sense, but it has served the wealthy and the white businessmen who covet cheap exploitable labor. They have kept it that way by buying lawmakers.

When they arrive, new immigrants come with a plan. They will work their fingers to the bone in menial jobs with the understanding that their children will be U.S. citizens who will get an education and become professionals. I have yet to meet an older immigrant family with a son or daughter who isn’t college-educated and working as a professional. This has been my experience for years. All of my doctors are either first or second-generation immigrants. My dentist is a naturalized citizen. Many of the researchers and professors I worked with at the University were first and second-generation immigrants. The tech bros that so many admire are almost all first and second-generation immigrants. Trump finally acknowledged that most native-born Americans lack the math, engineering, scientific and technical skills needed to carry modern industry forward.

Only the insecure who are unable or unwilling to complete support immigration policies that kidnap people without due process and lock them up before deporting them. The brain-drain at our universities has begun and the days when wealthy people with actual criminal and corrupt ways can buy their way into the country and a path to citizenship for $1 million dollars is here. The best and the brightest are finding their way to other countries where education, research, hard work, and innovation are valued. As we cut education and research funding while also cutting immigration, the U.S. will soon find itself with a shortage of doctors, engineers, scientists, and other professionals who provide the services we all depend on. These are the children of immigrant farm workers, brick layers, taxi drivers, and manicurists.

While ignorant Americans applaud cruel immigration raids, degrade education and expertise, gorge on Fox News, and abuse drugs, they are failing to realize that AI poses a real threat to their emotional and financial well-being if it is not regulated. As prices soar, jobs disappear, services become scarce, and the social safety net is removed, they will wake up to discover that their resentment was misplaced. The jobs immigrants took didn’t go to them, but to AI robots. The schools, housing, and healthcare they thought immigrants stole from them are unaffordable. They’ll find that their voices of dissent have been silenced and no legitimate journalist will tell their story. They will discover a true lack of freedom to pursue the life, liberty and happiness upon which our country was founded and they will remain at the bottom of Maslow’s Hierarchy scrounging for food, shelter and safety.

Unregulated AI will certainly worsen the plight of many Americans, but the under-educated xenophobes who struggle to meet their most basic needs on Maslow’s Hierarchy today will have an even harder time tomorrow. I wonder how long it will take them to finally realize that immigrants were never their problem in the first place.

I have one of those friendly faces that encourages people to open up and spill the beans about their lives. And what I’ve learned lately from my daily encounters is that people are anxious, angry, and aware that things are going south very quickly. This past Wednesday, in the nail salon, I had some brief conversations that exemplify some of the issues people are worried about. That was followed by a lengthy conversation in Costco on Thursday and a complaint session lead by my game partner that lasted the entire hour and a half of Bocce on Friday.

On Wednesday, the first thing I noticed, but didn’t address as soon as I sat down at my usual nail station were the ring cameras set up all around the salon. I had long been concerned about their “cash only” operation and the potential for robbery, but I can only guess that fear of desperate people because of the economic downturn or the potential for an ICE raid of a shop employing Vietnamese immigrants must have motivated this drastic change. I didn’t ask for an explanation. Just a few months before, I’d unsettled the peaceful nail spa when I expressed my annoyance that they had Fox News on their large screen television. I, along with several other customers, convinced them not to trust Fox News and they haven’t had it on since.

On this day, the owners of the salon had on a compilation of 80’s music accompanied by video clips of beautiful scenic roads. Having traveled to places like Hawaii, Alaska, Switzerland, and Canada, I knew firsthand that such idyllic scenes existed. I commented how much I appreciated the beautiful scenes and that I wished there was a label identifying the locations of each of them. The owner doing my nails casually replied that they might be AI generated. The customer beside me expressed her confusion and disappointment that we could no longer tell the difference. I agreed and shared that I recently heard an AI engineer say that soon we will only be able to trust the things we see in real time with our own eyes. We all expressed great disappointment in that kind of future.

As previously mentioned, the owners of the salon are Vietnamese immigrants. For a few minutes, the husband turned the channel to watch a Vietnamese immigration attorney. I couldn’t understand what was being said and turned my attention elsewhere. But within minutes, the husband turned to me and said that he just learned that Trump was no longer going to allow people like him to have more than one passport. Apparently, they have dual citizenship. He asked if that meant he would have to obtain a visa to travel back to his home country. They travel to Vietnam frequently and he was concerned. Our conversation turned to the newly announced immigration bans, the removal of protective status, the ICE raids, and Steven Miller’s push to revoke green cards and even citizenship. There was a collective sigh throughout the salon. The angst was real.

I’m always shocked these days by how quickly most conversations turn into a litany of complaints about the Epstein files, illegal bombings of fishing boats by the Navy, brutal ICE raids, blatant corruption, the outrageous pardon of yet another criminal, some revengeful firing or prosecution of anyone who tried to hold him accountable, funding cuts to education, research and public programs, higher prices, the revoking of the professional status of professionals, the rolling back of environmental protections, the ballroom, and the lining of his pockets. The corruption, cruelty, and incompetence are unlike anything we have ever seen, and people are beside themselves with anxiety and anger mixed with a feeling of hopelessness. My husband’s anger and anxiety are no longer tempered, but on fully display as each new outrage crosses his news feed.

I feel those things, too. I just try to remind myself that it is my duty to resist. I resist by not ignoring the wrongdoing and acknowledging it. I resist by supporting candidates at all levels who will oppose his policies, hold him accountable, and do what is best for the country. I resist by participating in protests, boycotts, and writing campaigns while also supporting the organizers (like Indivisible) with donations. I resist by subscribing to reliable online journalism like NPR, More Perfect Union, and The New York Times. I resist by donating to organizations that defend our Constitution in court like the ACLU, Democracy Forward, and the NAACP Legal Defense Fund. I resist by using my small social media presence to post my disapproval of current events. And most importantly, I resist by being a good human in my community and by encouraging others to do the same. I realized on Friday that I resist by talking about it, listening to others vent about, and encouraging participation in resistance efforts. I will no longer shy away from public conversations. Gone are the days of polite conversation when our country is on fire.

With an approval rating of 36%, it is evident that we still need to convince Americans who are either unaware, apathetic, or complicit that this current state of affairs is not only indecent, intolerable, and destructive, but it is unstainable for a nation to thrive with lawlessness, cruelty, a lack of investment in its people, and total incompetence. I’m convinced that the power of the people is greater than the people in power when we rise up together.

I hosted Thanksgiving, and we had a wonderful time. Great food, great conversation, and lots of love to go around. I am now in the midst of decorating our home for Christmas while enjoying leftovers. No Black Friday this year because of the boycott.

This week, please catch up on one of my many past posts and I’ll be back next week with a new reflection.